We writers have to be reminded sometimes, to “never give up”. I’ve heard stories about writers who wrote their novel during NaNoWriMo (a month) and others took years to write their book. I’m more in the latter category. I lead a very busy life. There’s lots of things I want to do, learn, experience, see and share with my family and friends.
I work full-time during the day and I do freelance writing as well as novel writing. Sound a bit like your schedule? Don’t worry, the dust isn’t going anywhere. You will get the bills paid on time (hopefully), and hubby will take care of dinner if there is no alternative. I also try to read a book every week or two, because writers really need to be readers, too.
So, what am I rambling on about? Not giving up.
No matter what gets in the way, make time for your writing. Doing a little bit as often as possible adds up, “cross my heart, it does!” And once your manuscript is done and been edited, edited and edited, well, then it’s time for the next phase.
Do you want to publish it? Do the research and decide which method is your choice (i.e. self-publishing, traditional print publishing, e-publishing, etc.). Do you want an agent or do you want to go with a small publisher who doesn’t require one? (so many questions, but the answers are out there.) Try Writer’s Market, Publishers Weekly, Writer’s Digest, for example.
From the time I conceived the idea of Feisty Family Values (working title, Feisty Fossils) in 2000 it was ten years before it was in hardback on the bookshelves. (Thank you Five Star Books!) Obviously, writing is a test of patience, but if you want it, then you have to work for it and not give up. There is a lot of rejection and that hurts. And critiquing isn’t always easy to swallow (what do you mean my baby is ugly?).
My second novel Patchwork Family is a follow on to Feisty and has a new publishing home with Belle Books. It comes out March of 2014. So, you see, waiting pays off. When you’re a new writer each book is like starting over. And it’s a long process between querying and signing a contract, signing a contract and book on the shelves. But it is “oh so nice” to see that book in the bookstores. Most authors dream of not only being published, but being able to make it a financially viable career. That’s a big DREAM!
If being an author is what you want, then do not stop writing, or learning about the craft or industry. Be a sponge and squeeze that story onto the page, using all the feelings of joy and sorrow you’ll experience in this business. It’s a huge wave of a journey and worth every dip and rise.
(Eighteen months ago I wrote about “never giving up” and this was BEFORE my second novel found a home. See, it can happen IF you Never Give Up!)